Randy and Stasya     Hard reality     Olga and Ken     Nata and Jordan     Scammer     Trip to Ukraine     Males dirty games p. I     Males dirty games p. II     Females dirty games     Phil and Yulia Randy and Stasya Stasya's version. That fall i have been studying on Marketing course in Open University of London and was spending nights looking for some researches online, clicking on links, click after click, and finally i have opened a dating site instead of a business portal. Had a quick look and decided why not, i was single and quite curious, actually never thought about marrying somebody from another country and knew just a bit about russian singles dating sites. Okay, good luck, i placed my ad and started to get letters from different guys from different countries. America was not in my list - too far! i have been on the site for a few weeks already and right on New Year's Eve i recieved a message from one american gentlemen. I still have no idea why i answered that message, i was already pretty bored with writing long letters every day, but i did anyway, probably God loves me, his beloved child. The guy has replied to me with a long letter back, we started to correspond, every day, long letters full of information, sharing desires, hopes, talking about everything, jobs, careers, politics, vacations ... we have found out that we had similar interests, similar values, similar attitude towards general things, i can not say exactly when it happened, but i guess, 2 weeks were enough for us to realize that we were falling madly in love with each other. We have never met, but we felt that. He came to visit me in about 2 months after the moment i received the first letter. I had a wierd feeling while waiting for him in the airport - i was waiting for my husnand getting back home after long business trip. We decided to get married in a couple of days, even better to say - we did not decide, we just knew we would get married. He left back to states, long night online, talking, long days alone, waiting. Me, always down-to-earth, quite cold and realistic, first thinking then acting, and i was madly madly in love with somebody i knew for couple of months only. My life was empty and not real without him. We got married and you know what? i am unbelievably happy, i am the most happiest woman in the whole Universe. In a few months my friends stopped to ask me if i was happy, cause the constant answer was - a big silly smile, i was and i am always happy. I adore, worship and cherish my husband. He is my heart and soul, he is the best thing that could ever happen to me. Randy's version I have been online for a couple of years, looking for the right person to spend the rest of my life with. Well, i experienced everything - have met scam artists, have come to visit one girl in Ukraine and after the visit she never wrote me back. Anyway, i had fun and met a lot of nice and not really nice new people, but could not find that the only one i would love to marry and to be with all my life. I have been on that site for half a year and did not expect to see new faces, when finally have noticed a dark haired 28 y.o. lady form Ukraine that recently joined the dating community. She answered me with a good long letter! I loved that! I still have our letters on my computer, it was real fun, i am not a great writer, but with my wife, sorry, that time with my girl friend we were talking online hours and hours. Actually, i was a good listener :) (oh, i am expecting troubles after finishing my part) According to all dating advices, one should not fall in love fast, but we were both lucky, we have found our other halves. When we decided to get married, some people were telling me that i was crazy to marry a girl from Ukraine, who was probably looking for only one thing - to move to the states. Not my wife! She loves me, not my american passport, not my bank account. I never had doubts, even when she tells me that it is true - she has married me because of my bank account and american passport and the reason why i married her that i received a free private secratary, perfect private cook, excellent private driver and masseusse! Sometimes, when we had problems with immigration visa, she was yelling at me, saying that she wanted me to be ruusian, not an american. It is not the first time and sure not the last when she was yelling at me :) but even the best of us have dismerits, i can live with it :) (i guess, i am in trouble again) She is the only one who really cares about me, who loves me more then life itself. I have found a person i have been waiting for all 38 years, and i love her more then anybody or anything in the entire world. And now we have our own dating web sites, be patient, be lucky and you will find you dream date, best friend, passionate lover and caring loving wife. We know what we are talking about, cause we have found each other and we are so happy! ========================= Stasya and Randy =========================