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• Don't post four different photos from four different stages in your life. This leaves a man wondering, "Who is this person?" Some women will put up pictures from different stages of their life but not put up current pictures. All photos that you post on an online dating profile must be current! He's going to find out what you look like when you meet and there is no reason to lie about your looks. • Don't post pictures of you skydiving, winter skiing, waterskiing, or doing anything else where men can't see what you look like in the picture. • Don't list your dislikes about Internet dating in bold, capital letters at the beginning of your profile. We've all had negative experiences online. Emphasize your positive points not your negative ones. • Keep your profile short and to the point. Make your paragraphs very short like a newspaper sports section - all paragraphs are short so men can digest that information in short bursts. • Don't be self-absorbed. Many women's profiles say, "I want a man to be this," "I want a man to do that," "I want a man to cherish me," "I want a man to adore me"... she lists all her "I wants" without listing what She will bring to the relationship. So she ends up looking like she is a taker and not a giver. No man wants to be with a taker; he wants to be with someone who's equally willing to give and to receive. • Don't list your financial desires like you're posting a want ad, instead say, "I like the finer things in life to share with somebody," so you don't come across so harsh. • Don't list all your rules. Don't write things like "My perfect date MUST be 55-58 y.o." or "The man I date HAS to wear suits." Women tend to list rules in their profiles. Be open to a different kind of first date or the kind of guy who wears jeans to work or maybe your perfect date will be a year younger or older. • If you write to a man and he doesn't write you back, don't write a nasty follow-up email and ask him why he didn't write you back. If a man doesn't respond to you, it's the same thing as when you don't write a man back. It means that he is not interested. Don't get angry, just find another person. • Take a chance and send an email to the guy to whom you're most attracted. You never know what might happen! • If a guy who you're interested in writes to you, write him back right away. Don't make him wait four days. He may find someone else in the time you wait to write him back. | ||||||||||
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