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alenika
02.13.09
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Erik, once more please, once more
Concerning age differences - I read your message first as "woman search men many years younger than them". Is it freudian slip?  |
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PackCat
02.13.09
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I think persons search for someone that makes them feel good about self.
Sometimes without thought of long term consequence.
I would feel awkward if the woman were young , still in early "child-bearing" years and wanted a baby...
Simply because of the prospect that I would not want to go to college graduation only with permission of nursing home and a male nurse escort. LOL
I am not against finding a more mature woman with older children (10-18) that are still young enough to play with and be a role model to.
Erik, maybe new sports car would be better than new young woman...
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Kasya2005
02.13.09
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grandpaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Happy Happy V Day  |
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kotenka
02.14.09
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or is this " the ticket " to the west? 
of course
Erik, you are a great instigator
You are smart man, but like to ask silly question.  |
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kotenka
02.14.09
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I think persons search for someone that makes them feel good about self.
...........blah..........blah.............blah........... new young woman... 
What is this? Is it a new reincarnation of Shadoff? |
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UWANTME
02.14.09
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Any guy that would marry someone 20 years younger then him self is a BIG OLD DURAK !!!
Really what would you have incommon with her ? When you are ready to go to bed she will be ready to go out and party. It will never work out. Only end up in DIVORCE COURT !!! |
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belano4ka
02.14.09
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well, yes, Mr Uwantme, your gf now would be 10 now the ...and it's againts the law...  |
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belano4ka
02.14.09
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well, yes, Mr Uwantme, your gf now would be 10 now the ...and it's againts the law...  |
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UWANTME
02.14.09
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| Only in some countries belano4ka. HeHe |
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UWANTME
02.14.09
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I cold use a nice fire right about now because it's cold here.
Any more for me it's better then having some young thing.  |
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UWANTME
02.14.09
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| Yes fIRST-FAIRY a Buba sounds good right about now. Have to forget about the Diso for now because the bones don't heal fast anymore... |
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snow_flake
02.14.09
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First-Faerie
Sure i dont.)))))
And i also to old for disco (((((
But i want to to answer u a bit serious too:
You can see i am 48 years - not young, not old, but middle aged. And as our stunning little member Kasya here so charming told - i also could be grandfather )))))
So i guess i now more prefer comfort in house or visiting friends instead of visiting discos or nightclubs every weekend.
I guess this is normal development for mostly people - changing interests when we become older.
So if i choosed a partner who has completely different interests then i have - we probably have a problem in front of us.
I dont say EVERY young woman want to visit disco or nightclubs every weekend - but many of them definately dont want to sit home in weekends.
So the challenge is as i see is to find someone who share some of my interests, is independent enough to also have own life and interests ( To tell truth i dont want to be a baby sitter or her either ( no offense meant ) ).
So if this fit and she also is is young " enough ", stunning, stylish and most of all intelligent and comfortable to be with - i take that a a " pre "
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UWANTME
02.14.09
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Yes fIRST-FAIRY my knees are not what they used to be. So I think I will need the nurse.  |
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snow_flake
02.14.09
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After posting about different themes at " Why do russian women wear sunglasses at top of head" , "Why russian woman arent capable to cook eatable food " and " Do I Need To Speak Russian To Date A Russian Woman?" i am now doing some research about new blog " Are russian women capable to make a joke and how to spot it ".
There are very less - or in fact Zero litterature about this theme, reason is probably because their husbands was to drunk to spot it when it happened, or they were out of cozy appartment flirting with other women ( not much joking then ) or maybe reason nr one is russian women are not capable to joke.
I am told this is because if u spell rubel often enough with your mouth - the lips doesnt exactly forming as a cozy smile
I would therefor be grateful if you could give a a link so i can learn everything about this very fashinating and to be true - sadly not to often happen event.  |
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alenika
02.14.09
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After posting about different themes at " Why do russian women wear sunglasses at top of head" , "Why russian woman arent capable to cook eatable food " and " Do I Need To Speak Russian To Date A Russian Woman?" i am now doing some research about new blog " Are russian women capable to make a joke and how to spot it ".  you are tempting your luck with asking provocative questions Be careful not to get in serious troubles, you know how "sweet" we russian women can be  |
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UWANTME
02.14.09
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snow flake lol in researching getting them to understand about joking. Not going to happen. About the cooking. If you go to Russia or Ukraine you will have to find a Buba to make you Borsch and Pelmeni because the young ones can't boil water.
I know I will get alot of flak over this one.  |
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belano4ka
02.14.09
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I am not a good girl ....
Most married people are close in age, but the divorce rate among those couples is high. So being close in age is not a guarantee of anything.Nothing in life is guaranteed.
The least which we have in common is our age. The most we have in common is heart and mind.
....Did someone ask for the nurse ?  |
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Nadya-bel
02.15.09
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I was doing a PhD in Denmark for 1.5 years. Now I am returning to my studies after maternity leave and I can say without any doubts – our Baltic girls are the best!!! Hundreds of Russian girls are PhDs and postdocs in Europe. And there’ve been only ONE Scandinavian girl in my department in the university I studied!
So first fairy - your joke is ok!
And yes, our russian men do not afraid to drink vodka from time to time, but they are so incredibly clever and interesting persons, that women are ready to live with them and born kids from them, in contrast to Scandinavian men. Some of them are so boring that your own women run far away.
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UWANTME
02.15.09
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fIRST-FAIRY sorry we are such a disapointment for you but you know evolution is a very slow process.
belano4ka glad to hear that Guys find this most attractive in a female.
Some look at divorce as a bad thing but it can be very positive. A new fresh start and a new outlook on life.
Looking for a lady doctor this time around. You know any ?  |
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snow_flake
02.15.09
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There are very less - or in fact Zero litterature about this theme, reason is probably because their husbands was to drunk to spot it when it happened, or they were out of cozy appartment flirting with other women ( not much joking then ) or maybe reason nr one is russian women are not capable to joke.
What is this nonsense?
It is humor
- so i see i am correct into my statement about russian woman and their lack of humor  |
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belano4ka
02.15.09
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UWANTME, every change in our life has a meaning....we like it or not . Sometimes it's impossible to believe that something what is happening in our life will somehow "benefit" us in the future...
we just have to think positive and learn from our mistakes....
PS>will dentist do?  |
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UWANTME
02.15.09
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learn from our mistakes....
belano4ka but how many mistakes can be made before it's time to throw in the towel and say enough of this and become a monk?
will dentist do?
Why of course as long as she is wearing a little short skirt to distract from the drill or I will
necessary to feel them soul!
fIRST-FAIRY not so easy to feel the soul when there are so many layers to peel!!! |
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snow_flake
02.15.09
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I have been in Europe almost all the time and can tell so can also most european women do  |
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Kasya2005
02.15.09
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................. so i made a conclusion im not a european woman at all...  |
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snow_flake
02.15.09
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Sure u are ....... but in sort of way an back yard european  |
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Apollo47
02.15.09
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| Snowflake ole buddy you can sit by the fireplace and entertain all you desire, I'll be at the disco tearing up the floor with the 20 somethings any night. All of this is preference and what we each desire and have in common. True love doesn't come pre packaged or with a set of directions on it. So how on earth can anyone on this earth decide what age person is good for another. This should be decided between the two involved without recourse from anyone around them. I'm in better shape at 47 than I ever was in my 30's and alot of my friends feel the same way. I have seen 20 year age difference marriages last and are still going strong. Whereas, I've seen same age marriages last only a few months or years. Age has nothing to do with it as long as each is honest and open about your future expectations and what each desires from the relationship. Communication and Finances are what usually contributes to a problem in relations as well as promises broken. Age isn't a factor unless someone makes it a factor! |
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selinko
02.15.09
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I endorse what you've said Apollo47. Who you relate to is more a state of mind, guys I went to college with are simply counting the days to retirement .... and presumably death! We seem poles apart. If you're nearby and hitting the floor let me know I'll be there with you. Hopefully we can find like minded people |
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anna777-80
02.15.09
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I fell in love. He is 51. I am 28. If somebody told me several months before that I have a relationship with a man so much older than me I would only laugh. Age seemed to me a serious matter. I thought - what would we talk about? How would I make love with him? How would i feel when everybody sees us together and guess us being daddy and daughter? I didnt understand girls who had such relationship.
I am Happy. He is my Sunshine, who makes me smile every day, every minute. We talk endlessly and cannot stop. We make love and he is the bes lover I've ever had and I have what to compare with.. We laugh all the time and make a lot of plans. We share everything with each other - what we like, what we worry about, what we dream about, what we are afraid of, what we adore. We share with each other about our kids - he has two kids, 18 and 21 years old and its gonna be interesting when it is time for us to meet:) I have a daughter who is 7 years old and who makes me feel now sometimes puzzled and I dont know what to do. And we share with each other. Even if I cannot help with any kind of advice I give him my support and understanding. The same as he does that to me every time - giving much care, support, tenderness and Love, Love, Love.
I have never said so many words of Love before in my life, I have never given so much Love to somebody else and now it is easy and natural - just because Love is througout us. Thanks God that we met and now we have each other in ours lives. You say about money and citizenship and we also discussed that. He offered several times to send me money but I refused just because being independent in this sense is important for the relationship I think. And yes, I know that if I ever need his help I can always ask him and I do appreciate that he is always ready to give me this help. And as for the sitizenship.. it would be much easier for me to find a good Russian man and stay in Russia which is also a strong country where I can have many opportunities for myself and my daughter. But I met an American man who is so special for me that being with him means being Happy. And to stay that happy with all the Love I feel to him - I will wait, I will have my daighter get used to the thought hat we shall have to leave for the strange country with strange language for her, very seldom see my parents, family and it hurts.
i don;t know what we are going to face in future. But as soon as we both feel so happy together, as we want to give each other all the Care and Love, age is nothing. Though of course we discuss that also and fully realise that it can also be a thing we are going to get through. "Life aint always beautiful but it's a beautiful ride" :) Forget about your prejudice and who knows what you find then in your life:)
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belano4ka
02.16.09
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learn from our mistakes....
belano4ka but how many mistakes can be made before it's time to throw in the towel and say enough of this and become a monk?
will dentist do?
Well, you can learn from the mistakes of others, it's less painful....
Becoming a monk is not necessarily a learning--it's more sounds like an escape from reality...
PS. there will be drill all right...  |
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snow_flake
02.16.09
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Anna777
Thanks for sharing your story with us  |
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snow_flake
02.16.09
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Apollo
If that is what u want , buddy - u just follow the path u have choosen, nobody else should choose FOR you.
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kotenka
02.18.09
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And what about men, do they think they can make such relationship work?
Men tell "thank you God for that you has created viagra"  |
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UWANTME
02.19.09
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viagra
Thank God for that little blue pill !!!! Daddy's little helper !!!  |
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belano4ka
02.19.09
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Thank God for that little blue pill !!!! Daddy's little helper !!! 
.... Did you lie about your age or what ? |
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UWANTME
02.20.09
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.... Did you lie about your age or what ?
Nope nope. Just tring to keep up with the competition.  |
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belano4ka
02.20.09
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Nope nope. Just tring to keep up with the competition. 
...Nah, the real man doesn't have to....Everyone is a winner in own game  |
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UWANTME
02.20.09
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Everyone is a winner in own game
But some play it better then others.  |
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snow_flake
02.20.09
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Back to topic please.
U can use private chat rooms for flirting
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UWANTME
02.20.09
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Back to topic please.
U can use private chat rooms for flirting 
Who is flirting ?  |
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belano4ka
02.21.09
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But some play it better then others. 
I bet you still have your own fan-fun club
U can use private chat rooms for flirting
I never flirt , you know me
Flake, do you want UWANTME to flirt with you? |
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belano4ka
02.21.09
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Почему? Флирт - это непринуждённое доброжелательное общение, он бывает и дружеским, и деловым, и любовным... Не отказывайте себе в у довольствии!
Спасибо, Fairy ...Шучу я да здраvствует флирт  |
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UWANTME
02.21.09
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I never flirt , you know me
Flake, do you want UWANTME to flirt with you?
Sorry but my gate does not swing in both directions !!!  |
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belano4ka
02.21.09
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Oh, that is such a relief.... I am so glad to hear that your gate still swings  |
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UWANTME
02.22.09
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I am so glad to hear that your gate still swings
But not as good as it used to.  |
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belano4ka
02.22.09
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Hehehe.... you need some oiling  |
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snow_flake
02.22.09
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I see i soon i have to use my power and start delete i see
And for FirstFairy
I am not jealous man.
For Belano4ka
No - i dont want any man start to flirt with me
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UWANTME
02.22.09
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Hehehe.... you need some oiling 
Opps there I go again needing that nurse!!!  |
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FranzFerdinand
03.09.09
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| In these matters some guys will think with their little head... Further: Belano4ka thanks for your insights in the Russian mind and your personal wisdom ;) |
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BlinClinton
03.10.09
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so i made a conclusion im not a european woman at all.
So what kind of European are you?  |
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alenika
03.10.09
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Georgian girls are very good wifes! And of course they are pretty!
Just we are rather rather smaller then Russia.
so in Europe we are not so popular like Russians.  Thanks god we are not They will not come here for those trip, and there will be no those dating agencies here... |
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E-V-A
03.11.09
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i think 15 years difference it maximum  |
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alenika
03.11.09
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BUt they are coming.... They? How many of them?  |
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snow_flake
03.11.09
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2009-salomea
Scandinavian man is good in sport and they like to be in good shape:)!
Not for mention very loud - because many in here will be very jealous
But fact is am into extremly good shape And even i have still have no Alzheimer into mind - i dont know what this Iagra is? Maybe new Bjørn Borg underwear collection?????
So what age difference will suit me then?  |
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ChelIn-2008
03.12.09
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he feel he can have relationship with young woman without viagra!!!! 
without viagra but maybe with cialis
it's more effective and 36 h of happiness is guaranteed
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ChelIn-2008
03.12.09
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WOWLady-Pisces
i haven't heard about such side effect?
oooooh poor men
for viagra what is most dangerous is that it can cause heart attack.
i don't know about cialis but I think unfortunately it could be the same 'cause has the same mechanism of action (difference is only effectiveness and longer half life) and i suppose it depends on organism
yes i found about side effects of cialis "most common side effects when using tadalafil (cialis) are headache, indigestion, back pain, muscle aches, flushing, and stuffy or runny nose". you see here indigestion is included so
but no effect on heart that's good
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alenika
03.12.09
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depends on a girl- :) I have 3 examples- :) 1 from America- now he is husband of my friend, 2- from Germany- he is also husband of my friend and 3- from Sweden- very nice guy he is 45- really can have a sex  As I understood - they either came here for work or came to one woman whom they marrried later?
That's what I meant telling good that hundreds of them are not coming there. Those who come here are "elite" :
1) they know Georgia doesn't exist only as US state.
2) they know there are women in Georgia, not only war,
3) they don't come here on the way to other women, as it's not easy to go from here to other countries,
4) they usually come here to visit one woman - if come for romantic reasons of course, not for job.
5) those "ugly americans" (this is slang which unites foreigners who behave ugly in other countries) don't come here as they are scared of possible dangerous events.
6) only normal people come here, open-minded, who can see people behind the politics.
In other countries, easier to access, better known - for more beautiful women as they this - there are mosly those "ugly americans" with "ugly" dating skills. |
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FOTTIE
03.12.09
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ulgy americans , well I have had the pleasure of meeting some real uly hearted women from FSU , SO DO IS A BIG FAVOR if you feel like that stay where you are . We do not need or want you here . Could we be so ulgy because your beloved Soviet Union is defunct , amd no longer existis . You sell your oil for 20 USD per barell to stay alive .
Any other questions |
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alenika
03.12.09
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ulgy americans , well I have had the pleasure of meeting some real uly hearted women from FSU , SO DO IS A BIG FAVOR if you feel like that stay where you are Ugly americans + those who canot read written.
I wrote there : "this is slang which unites foreigners who behave ugly in other countries" - that is this is slang accepted in internet. It doesn't include only americans, but people from any countries, those who behave ugly. Make search in internet and you'll find.
This is from wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ugly_American Wikipedia: ugly american slang
That is saying this I was referring to certain behaviour, not country, and not people in that country.
And of course I am where I am  |
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snow_flake
03.13.09
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I find it strange to put women here into " blocks " after what nationality they are from.
And Alenika made very good point - so if i translate her words into mine, i would say
" why should i go and meet someone who already have plenty of meetings " - better to choose normal one who is a bit more picky than that
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delightfulaura
03.13.09
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FOR EVERYONE TO ENJOY:
Age Difference / Older Man / Younger Woman
0 Years (less than one year age difference)
Mark Burnett . . . Roma Downey
George W. Bush . . . Laura Welch
Albert Gore Jr. . . . Tipper Aitcheson
Tom Hanks . . . Rita Wilson
Tim McGraw . . . Faith Hill
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1 Year
Tony Blair . . . Cherie Booth
James Brolin . . . Barbra Streisand
Bill Clinton . . . Hilary Clinton (Hilary Rodham Clinton)
Sean Connery . . . Micheline Roquebrune
David E. Kelley . . . Michelle Pfeiffer
Paul McCartney . . . Linda (McCartney (Linda Eastman)
Al Pacino . . . Beverly D'Angelo
Freddie Prinze Jr. . . . Sarah Michelle Geller
Brandon Routh . . . Courtney Ford
Frank Sinatra . . . Nancy Barbato
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2 Years
Merve Adelson . . . Barbara Walters
Phil Donahue . . . Marlo Thomas
King Edward VIII . . . Wallis Simpson
Gavin Rossdale . . . Gwen Stefani
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3 Years
Prince Ernst August . . . Princess Caroline of Monaco
Garth Brooks . . . Trisha Yearwood
Matthew Broderick . . . Sarah Jessica Parker
Sean Connery . . . Diane Cilento
Stedman Graham . . . Oprah Winfrey
Robert F. Kennedy . . . Ethel Skakel
Ozzie Nelson . . . Harriet Hilliard
Ronald Reagan . . . Jane Wyman
Will Smith . . . Jada Pinkett
John Tesh . . . Connie Sellecca
Donald Trump . . . Ivana Trump (Ivana Zelnicek)
Denzel Washington . . . Pauletta Pearson
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4 Years
Cary Grant . . . Virginia Cherrill
James Keach . . . Jane Seymour
Tiger Woods . . . Elin Nordegren
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5 Years
Dan Aykroyd . . . Donna Dixon
Prince Edward . . . Sophie Rhys-Jones
Prince Felipe (Spain) . . . Letizia Ortiz
Paul Newman . . . Joanne Woodward
Ray Romano . . . Anna Scarpulla
Ben Stiller . . . Christine Taylor
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6 Years
David Boreanaz . . . Jaime Bergman
Ted Danson . . . Mary Steenburgen
David Duchovny . . . Téa Leoni
Dodi Fayad . . . Princess Diana
Bob Hope . . . Dolores Reade
Lee Majors . . . Farrah Fawcett
Laurence Olivier . . . Vivien Leigh
Sean Penn . . . Robin Wright
Prince Rainier III . . . Grace Kelly
Steven Spielberg . . . Kate Capshaw
Roger Vadim . . . Brigitte Bardot
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7 Years
Richard Burton . . . Elizabeth Taylor
Clark Gable . . . Carole Lombard
Frank Sinatra . . . Ava Gardner
Spencer Tracy . . . Katharine Hepburn
Bruce Willis . . . Demi Moore
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8 Years
Russell Crowe . . . Danielle Spencer
Steve McQueen . . . Ali MacGraw
Nicolas Mirzayante . . . Princess Alexandra of Greece
Maury Povich . . . Connie Chung
Arnold Schwarzenegger . . . Maria Shriver
Kevin Sorbo . . . Sam Jenkins
John Travolta . . . Kelly Preston
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9 Years
Daniel Craig . . . Satsuki Mitchell
Johnny Depp . . . Vanessa Paradis
Bill Gates . . . Melinda Gates (Melinda French)
Christopher Reeve . . . Dana Reeve (Dana Morosini)
Roger Vadim . . . Jane Fonda
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10 Years
Bryan Brown . . . Rachel Ward
Jim Carrey . . . Jenny McCarthy
John Derek . . . Ursula Andress
Jonathon Frakes . . . Genie Francis
Christopher Guest . . . Jamie Lee Curtis
Elvis Presley . . . Priscilla Presley (Priscilla Beaulieu)
Ronald Reagan . . . Nancy Reagan (Nancy Davis)
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11 Years
Michael Bolton . . . Nicollette Sheridan
Richard Gere . . . Carey Lowel
Harry Hamlin . . . Lisa Rinna
Penn Jillette . . . Emily Zolten
Arthur Miller . . . Marilyn Monroe
Liam Neeson . . . Natasha Richardson
Brad Pitt . . . Angelina Jolie
Seal . . . Heidi Klum
Ringo Star . . . Barbara Bach
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12 Years
Mikhail Baryshnikov . . . Lisa Rinehart
Sonny Bono . . . Cher (Cherilyn La Piere)
Joe DiMaggio . . . Marilyn Monroe
John F. Kennedy . . . Jacqueline Bouvier
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13 Years
Jim Belushi . . . Jennifer Sloan
Pierce Brosnan . . . Keely Shaye Smith
Prince Charles . . . Diana Spencer
Gary Cooper . . . Sandra Shaw
Blake Edwards . . . Julie Andrews
Robert Graham . . . Anjelica Huston
Mick Jagger . . . Jerry Hall
David Letterman . . . Regina Lasko
Tom Selleck . . . Jillie Mack
Frank Sinatra . . . Barbara Marx
Rob Tapert . . . Lucy Lawless
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14 Years
Alan Barnette . . . Kim Delaney
Bjorn Borg . . . Patricia Ostfeldt
Bruce Boxleitner . . . Melissa Gilbert
Michael Caine . . . Shakira Baksh
Kelsey Grammer . . . Camille Donatacci
Loius Malle . . . Candice Bergen
Matthew McConaughey . . . Camila Alves
Mike Nichols . . . Diane Sawyer
Geraldo Rivera . . . C.C. Dyer
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15 Years
David Brenner . . . Tai Babilonia
Michael Flatley . . . Lisa Murphy
John Ritter . . . Amy Yasbeck
Jerry Soloman . . . Nancy Kerrigan
Patrick Stewart . . . Wendy Neuss
Roger Vadim . . . Catherine Deneuve
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16 Years
Richard Dean Anderson . . . Apryl Prose
Luc Besson . . . Milla Jovovich
Richard Brinkmann . . . Mena Suvari
David Carradine . . . Marina Benjamin
Tom Cruise . . . Katie Holmes
John Derek . . . Linda Evans
Kevin Kline . . . Pheobe Cates
Robert Lange . . . Shania Twain
Ric Ocasek . . . Paulina Porizkova
Bruce Willis . . . Karen McDougal
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17 Years
Dustin Hoffman . . . Lisa Gottsegan
Dennis Quaid . . . Kimberly Buffington
Charles Saatchi . . . Nigella Lawson
Jerry Seinfeld . . . Jennifer Crittenden
Jean Todt . . . Michelle Yeoh
Donald Trump . . . Marla Maples
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18 Years
Fabian Forte . . . Andrea Patrick
Don Johnson . . . Kelley Phleger
Paul McCartney . . . Nancy Shevell
John Mellencamp . . . Elaine Irwin
John O'Hurley . . . Lisa Mesloh
Gene Roddenberry . . . Majel Barrett
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19 Years
Cary Grant . . . Betsy Drake
Anthony Hopkins . . . Stella Arroyave
Steve Martin . . . Kristin Davis
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20 Years
Prince Albert of Monaco . . . Charlene Wittstock
Nicolas Cage . . . Alice Kim
John Rhys-Davies . . . Lisa Manning
Tony Curtis . . . Christine Kaufman
Les Moonves . . . Julie Chen
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21 Years
Warren Beatty . . . Annette Bening
Peter Brant . . . Stephanie Seymour
Lee Majors . . . Karen Velez
Jerry Seinfeld . . . Shoshanna Lonstein
Bruce Willis . . . Emma Heming
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22 Years
Phil Collins . . . Orianne Cevey
Kevin Costner . . . Christine Baumgarten
Peter Gabriel . . . Meabh Flynn
Edward M. Kennedy . . . Victoria Reggie
Wayne Newton . . . Kathleen McCrane
Laurence Olivier . . . Joan Plowright
Carlo Ponti . . . Sophia Loren
Alan Thicke . . . Gina Tolleson
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23 Years
Orson Bean . . . Alley Mills
Flavio Briatore . . . Heidi Klume
Harrison Ford . . . Calista Flockhart
John Forsythe . . . Nicole Carter
Frank Gifford . . . Kathie Lee Gifford (Kathie Lee Epstein) (same birthday: August 16)
Merle Haggard . . . Theresa Lane
Mick Jagger . . . L'Wren Scott
George Lazenby . . . Pam Shriver
Aristotle Onassis . . . Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy
Sylvester Stallone . . . Jennifer Flavin
Steven Tyler . . . Erin Brady
Bruce Willis . . . Brooke Burns
Bruce Willis . . . Emily Sandberg
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24 Years
Hugh Hefner . . . Barbi Benton
Judd Hirsch . . . Bonni (wife)
Malcolm McDowell . . . Kelley Kuhr
Chuck Norris . . . Gena O'Kelley
Fred Thompson . . . Jeri Kehn
Donald Trump . . . Melania Knauss
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25 Years
Humphrey Bogart . . . Lauren Bacall
Robert Conrad . . . LaVelda Fann
Michael Douglas . . . Catherine Zeta-Jones (same birthday: September 25)
Richard Harris . . . Ann Turkel
Benjamin Harrison . . . Mary Dimmick (He: 62, 23nd U.S. President [married after leaving office]. She: 37. Year: 1896.)
Christopher Knight . . . Adrianne Curry
Norman Lear . . . Lyn Davis
Paul McCartney . . . Heather Mills
Rod Stewart . . . Rachel Hunter
Mike Todd . . . Elizabeth Taylor
Bruce WIllis . . . Nadia Bjorlin
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26 Years
René Angélil . . . Celine Dion
Charles Dance . . . Shambhala Marthe
Mick Jagger . . . Luciana Morad
Larry King . . . Shawn Southwick
Steve Martin . . . Anne Stringfield
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27 Years
Jeff Goldblum . . . Catherine Wreford
Jerry Lee Lewis . . . Kerrie McCarver
Rich Little . . . Jeannette Markey
Rod Stewart . . . Penny Lancaster
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28 Years
Grover Cleveland . . . Frances Folsom (He: 49, 22nd U.S. President. She: 21, youngest First Lady. Year: 1886.)
Harrison Ford . . . Minnie Driver
Nelson Mandela . . . Graca Machel
Jack Nicholson . . . Sandra Knight
Kenny Rogers . . . Wanda Miller
William Shatner . . . Nerine Kidd
William Shatner . . . Elizabeth Martin
Alan Thicke . . . Tany Callau
Bao Xishum . . . Xia Shusian (He: former world's tallest man 7'9")
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29 Years
George Hamilton . . . Kimberly Blackford
Yaphet Kotto . . . Tessie Sinahon
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30 Years
Paul Anka . . . Anna Yeager
Bing Crosby . . . Kathryn Grant
John Derek . . . Bo Derek (Mary Collins)
Frank Sinatra . . . Mia Farrow
John Tyler . . . Julia Gardiner (He: 54, 10th U.S. President. She: 24. Year: 1844.)
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31 Years
Eric Clapton . . . Melia McEnery
Rodney Dangerfield . . . Joan Child
Robert Evans . . . Catherine Oxenberg
Dennis Hopper . . . Katherine LaNasa
Martin Landau . . . Gretchen Becker
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32 Years
Billy Joel . . . Katie Lee
Ed McMahon . . . Pam Hurn
Geraldo Rivera . . . Erica Levy
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33 Years
Tony Bennett . . . Susan Crow
Cary Grant . . . Dyan Cannon
Jack Nicholson . . . Lara Flynn Boyle
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34 Years
Charles Dance . . . Sophia Myles
John McLaughlin . . . Cristine Vidal
Andre Previn . . . Anne-Sophie Mutter
Rod Steiger . . . Paula Ellis
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35 Years
Woody Allen . . . Soon-Yi Previn
Dennis Hopper . . . Victoria Duffy
Tony Robinson . . . Louise Hobbs
J.D. Salinger . . . Joyce Maynard (He: 53. She: 18. Year: 1972.)
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36 Years
Clint Eastwood . . . Dina Eastwood (Dina Ruiz)
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37 Years
James Doohan . . . Wende Braunberger
Hugh Hefner . . . Kimberley Conrad
Rupert Murdoch . . . Wendi Deng
Des O'Connor . . . Jodie Brooke Wilson
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39 Years
Robert Evans . . . Leslie Ann Woodward
Patrick Stewart . . . Lisa Dillon
James Woods . . . Ashley Madison (He: 57. She: 18 when first met.)
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40 Years
Charles Bronson . . . Kim Weeks
Pablo Picasso . . . Françoise Gilot
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41 Years
Robert Duvall . . . Luciana Pedraza (same birthday: January 5)
Terry Jones . . . Anna Soderstrom (He: 62. She: 21 when first met.)
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42 Years
Leopold Stokowski . . . Gloria Vanderbilt
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44 Years
Fred Astaire . . . Robyn Smith
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45 Years
Tony Curtis . . . Jill Vanden Berg
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47 Years
Cary Grant . . . Barbara Harris
Anthony Quinn . . . Kathy Benvin
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48 Years
Kirk Kerkorian . . . Lisa Bonder
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51 Years
Tony Randall . . . Heather Harlan
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54 Years
Hugh Hefner . . . Holly Madison
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63 Years
J. Howard Marshall II . . . Anna Nicole Smith (He: 89. She: 26 when first met.)
Glynn Wolfe . . . Daisy (wife) (He: Guiness world record holder, world's most married man. She: young Asian bride.)
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delightfulaura
03.13.09
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Who are the hottest celebrity couples with the biggest age differences? Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher come to mind, but there are so many other happy couples that are making it work. Check out the list because some of them just might surprise you.
1. James Woods and Ashley Madison - 39 Years
James Woods is notorious in Hollywood for dating much younger women. However, this new relationship really takes the cake. James is nearly three times the age of his young lady love Ashley and neither seems to mind at all. The two reportedly met through her father who just happens to be one of James' golfing companions.
2. Billy Joel and Katie Lee Joel - 32 Years
Many doubted that the legendary singer Billy Joel and a much younger Katie Lee would make it past the first few dates. The critics were wrong and the two were married in 2004 and remain committed to the marriage and each other. He was 55 and she was 23 when they tied the knot at their home in Oyster Bay, NY.
3. Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas - 25 Years
With a big age difference, Catherine and Michael still manage to make it work out. The super skinny actress and her husband Michael share a home and two children together, Dylan and Carys. While they also share the same birthday - September 25, they most certainly are years apart.
4. Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart - 22 Years
Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart have been dating since 2002 and they're even raising her adopted son Liam together. Rumors have been swirling that they might marry, but after two failed marriages, Harrison is in no hurry. His ex-wife Melissa Mathison was said to have scored $85 million in their divorce. Next time he should consider a pre-nup.
5. Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher - 15 Years
Age is nothing but a number for Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. The two clicked over dinner in May of 2003, and have been going strong ever since. They were married in September 2005 and are raising Demi and ex-hubby Bruce Willis' three daughters together. |
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snow_flake
03.14.09
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delightfulaura
What a task u did
Hopefully u was able to copy and past
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delightfulaura
03.15.09
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snow flake,
I am glad you appreciate the contribution I made to your blog, because it seems many people got off the entire
topic (subject matter) that you began with. Interesting opening line, you begin with ??
Pay close attention to the last two on the list I made 54 & 63 years age difference. Hugh Hefner is the owner & publisher for "Playboy" magazine. So many men seem to approve of his lifestyle and glad for him as he is 85+ year old man. Lastly, then the biggest age gap is between J. Howard Marshall II & Anna Nicole Smith(Both now deceased).
The attraction between them mainly was the wealth that they had accumulated and what they could offer in exchange for these woman's affections. Some on the list I agree to have really found true love with their younger partners. But I thought that everyone would enjoy to see different comparisons for there own opinions.
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sailor49
04.23.09
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| Thanks dilightfulaura!! You have restored some hope for me:) |
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miranda84
08.29.09
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between my father and mother is 11 year difference but thay feel very heppy together
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alenika
08.29.09
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between my father and mother is 11 year difference but thay feel very heppy together Good to hear :-) Many men when searching FSU woman think that woman 11 years younger is too old for them :( |
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Nadza
08.29.09
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Prostitution happens in different kinds. In such as the author of a theme too describes happens. Normal intellectually the man never chooses for serious relations the woman much more youngly as perfectly understands that at all of them a miscellaneous. However as women are younger than themselves much more choose men only for disposable relations and only for entertainments. However women as a rule understand it, and unfortunate men often unfortunately are not present and have from it the big problems connected with misunderstanding in a family.  |
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E-V-A
08.29.09
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| 10-15 difference betwen is normal ))) |
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Nadza
08.29.09
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| Has forgotten to tell - norm the age difference till 12 years both in one and in other party is considered. All other distortion as with one and on the other hand. Each woman perfectly understands that it itself or sells or to itself buys the man. Men practically it never understand and wait from very young girls of great love with an age difference of 20-40 years when it cannot be! The love is not on sale and is not bought! |
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FOXI-LADY
08.30.09
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10-15 difference betwen is normal )))
For whom normal? For you? Maybe.
EVA is not alone.
For me it works at same way.
I'm 23 and it's impossible to find serious, intelligent enought and well-mannered man younger then 30.
Choosing the age depends on what you are looking for too.
Even... elder man, being more experienced giving more attention to their beloved,being not so crazy about sex as the man under 30
that's my own experience.  |
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Nadza
08.30.09
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I completely agree with glasses!
Despite opinion in a society that women grow old before men, in a life all on the contrary. I extremely seldom meet in a life of men of my years (me soon 50 years) which look so normally that I am ready to be with them nearby. Usually I prefer men from 40 till 50 years and no more. Not all men can watch themselves both the appearance and a potentiality. They very old and unpleasant. It turns out that the concrete man of my years is not interesting to me because of the old age, and is interesting to younger woman! It is absurdity! I want to those young women who assert that love old men not for their money to try to grow fond of the poor and sick old man, instead of rich and healthy. And after that we will look that they will speak about the love to old men! Money has certainly put good, but let's not say lies to itself and to mislead unfortunate men who by naivety often trust this lie.
P.S. Certainly there are exceptions (for example look at Sailor49) which keep worthy appearance in old age. For them certainly quite normally to prefer women for 20 years is younger than itself.  |
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E-V-A
08.30.09
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I agree with Foxy.
I not talk of young woman and old man. If woman young and man just little old, but he not old yet! There can be love and when you grow all together, i think it will not material next 20 years after life together.  |
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black-sheep
08.31.09
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Glasses and Nazda are correct.
Even if a young woman of -say- 25 would even consider a relationship with someone 40-45 it is extremely difficult that a woman of 50 will want someone who is 65-70. It is logical. As the woman matures the age difference with the man she looks for will be smaller.
Exceptions and special cases are always there but as a rule I think it is highly unlikely to happen.
Such is life  |
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E-V-A
08.31.09
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| And nothing about love?!!! Sad.. |
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1radkatt
08.31.09
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Glasses
Your right! what kind of marriage will it be. i my self have to realize in 10 years will she still be their?
Many men that think it will be a great marriage, they do not evaluate the time line for the future years .. in 20 years or longer the man will be physically older, his body worn ..
will she be around to help him around if there is heath issues?...
lets face it most men just think in the now and with their penis... have a young lady and never look toward the long term ...
there have been men that marry young ladies and have good marriages but the percentage is mostly stacked against happy ones ...
most ladies will leave for younger man when things get rough and the guy is older. the next factor is if they have kids the social impact on the kids when they go to school ...its hard for them when the activities require the dad to participate in events ....
But the biggest factor is what will the parents of the girl say... to their daughters marring the guy if twice her age age...or even if the guy is older than the parents eeeewwww... that's just wrong.
But if its true love and they make a great life then my hat off to them but such are rare couples. |
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E-V-A
08.31.09
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Now it's normal and people live ok with it! There no all men so ugly in 40-50! I know one who is 45 but he looks as 35 really!  |
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Nadza
08.31.09
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It is necessary to be very self-confident man, what in 50 years to marry 30 summer woman. Also it is necessary to be very much with a low self-estimation the woman (such "cheap women" name) what to live with the man for 20 and more years is more senior itself. Such men suffer Lolita syndrome and they would like with the years all more youngly women/girls. Women from bad families or grown without fathers certainly search to themselves for husbands in a role of the father/grandfather
I am good in my 49. And unless the coeval with a stomach, grey-haired and bald is necessary to me? |
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FOXI-LADY
08.31.09
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Women from bad families or grown without fathers certainly search to themselves for husbands in a role of the father/grandfather

Nadza -- I'm not from bad family and my parents are together still.
But by anyway I prefere man, elder that I'm.
"Syndrome of Lolita?" -- rarely possible,as I'm not looking for somebody to play a role of my father.
I need a real man that I'l not feel his mother. Otherwise i case I'll wand a baby -- will be too difficult to handle with 2(or more ).
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black-sheep
08.31.09
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Btw I am going to have meeting tomorrow with one of these women who was married a guy who was older than she on 17 years. She divorced. She stayed in the USA. She doesn't want to marry at all after her "happy marriage".
Sounds like your friend had a very bad experience.
Are you saying (or is she claiming) their 17 years of age difference was the single reason for a marriage so bad this woman never wants to marry again?!?!
Age difference alone can never be the reason for this.
Bad character and/or dangerous behavior are not traits that have to do much with the age difference of a couple, rather with the individuals regardless of age. |
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E-V-A
08.31.09
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It depens from persone! Good persone or no!! Years going so fast and we just not have time to grow and be old!!! We are still young in soul! :)
P.S. Girls mind grow faster then man. When girl 24, she can feel as 30. But if man 24 he can think as he 13!! ;) |
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E-V-A
09.01.09
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It's not me so talk. It's long time proved by psihology!! Read books! Of course i not have 50 old daddy, just 11 difference and it's ok for me. Same level. ))) But what if you get old, you still will not like such old men? Will want he always young? It impossible! |
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alenika
09.01.09
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| Large age difference is protected only on these type of forums - which are about interntional dating between men from Western countries and women from FSU (i.e. considered from poor countries). When I am on other forums age difference is never an issue to discuss. There cannot be even a question on forums which are not about FSY-West dating about age different bigger than 10-12 years (which are already considered as large age difference). But when come back to the forums like this... after reading for a while I feel soaking among elder men and already even 20 years difference is taken as normal. |
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E-V-A
09.01.09
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Young men really not sexy to me, i like 36 age men. And they more gentelmens and ready for family. If 1 persone is active, other passive there can be problems always, but if 2 passive it should be ok. Now some men in 50 looks ok too and ready for everything. |
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FOXI-LADY
09.01.09
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To my mind if woman can be with much older man she is cheap and sells herself. There is no place to love.
Dear, glasses, this depends from man and woman too.
If she is with man to get money and gifts only -- hope she knows what she's doing.
but if there any partnership and frienship present - there no place to use each other.
Rather coming undestanding and loyality.
For somebody love is like star, felt down from the skies, but still there many people which grow their love from friendship.
For me, to be with elder man -- means to grow up intellectually.
What do they find in me(besides "young meat" ) ?
Still I found out 2 reasons -- one is being more positive(I never thought that it's a feature of age,rather feature of person) -- just maybe as you say "naive" -- means have less life experience.But to be more risky, smart and sincere. Even if it so -- it's natural, and every day brings smth new in our life. Just having more days (and years of course) doesnt mean being matured -- if person is not able to learn anything from lessons of the life.
Just between elder man I've more chances to find mature and selfconfident person and not a "sugar daddy" as you say Sorry, maybe too sharp now, but do you really consider the man of 36 as a "sugar daddy" for 24 yeared girl?
Will not bring the list of couples with big age difference(shis already did DelightLaura )
Second reason as I told already -- if the man is not very old still and wants have his own child with belowed woman.
But about this was discussion already.Dont want repeat same.
Conclusion -- there is no. Just the own choice for everybody.
But I dont consider the people after 40 as "old"(and you too, dear Glasses )
Wish to everybody find his own way to happyness, without blaming the people which think different and havin respect to each other.   |
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FOXI-LADY
09.02.09
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hmm, maybe in some aspects you are right, just try to respect the other people opinion, ok?
After reading this feel much pressure of authority. Be more femimine at least.
I feel sorry for your daughter.
My mother never demands from me think the same as she does and respect my opinion and let me do my own mistakes -- which are important ,as I'm getting experience. |
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E-V-A
09.02.09
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| 36 is very good age! And never late to have family! old people want be happy too. Love,respect,honest,friendship make this couplets be together. Of course young girl will boring with 50 old man i agree, but 36 it still young! |
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FOXI-LADY
09.02.09
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36 is very good age!
any age can be good, just depends for whom
It is stupid to think that you can be more popular among mature men than me.
As I'm not stupid -- I never have concurence with a women elder then me.
Select your man and be happy with him.
but I dont see anything bad to be choosen if we both can be happ together.
Good the we all are very different.
Every women and every man have some value(beautiful face, body, good character, wisdom, money(even), etc)
Just need to find a person for whom it can be valuable too. Internet just helps in this huge world  |
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IamElvis
09.02.09
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Just need to find a person for whom it can be valuable too. Internet just helps in this huge world   |
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E-V-A
09.02.09
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| Если в паре нет доверия и уважения, тут и равными не построишь. Просто немного постарше мужчина опытнее!! И не все в интернет приходят только за этим, просто пообщаться,посмотреть. И судьба их сводит. ))) |
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VictoriaVero
09.03.09
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First I did not want to interfere because this topic was brought up more than hundred times but in the end of the day I could not help interfering because I cannot stand when people try to see and criticize a bit of of dust in the eyes of others but cannot or don't want to see a huge pile of trash in their own.
There is no real "normal". Except for certain things that are against the law (in civilized countries) but that's already another topic. All we have our own bags, complexes and so on... just in different places of our mind and psycho. And nobody can really say which are worse and which are better. We all see the world through prisms of our experience, knowledge, book we read, people we met and so on... Maybe the amount of books read can depend on the age, however, it is also a relative thing, but experience does have a proportional ratio to the age, so experience of a 22 years old girl could be actually deeper than those of 50 years old (under certain circumstances), therefore, all we are equal when speaking about us see and judging the world around us. Here, I hope, we agree. Also around subjectivity of our judgments.
From psychological point of view men and wоmеn who are consciously looking ONLY for a partner of 20 years older or younger than they ... they usually do have psychological problems. How severe and harmful those problems are and if those problems are worse than psychological problems of other people (for example men who think that all women are bitches or women who think that all men are jerks, people who believe that only they know what is right and wrong and so on) is question a long discussion. But if even there is this woman who is psychologically damaged and that's why she was looking for an older guy and there is a guy who is psychologically damaged and he was looking for younger girls and then they met and lived happily ever after... What's wrong with that? The most important thins is to be happy. And if they are happy everything else does not matter!
There definitely are women who marry older guys for money and other stuff and then feel bad and unhappy. But it's not only a question of age. It could be also a question of look, character and so on. There are woman who marry ugly guys for money (or because they really loved them? should those women be condemn too?). There are women who marry jerks because they are good looking and young and probably have money or even don't... Is that worse than marrying really older guy, worse, the same or??? What is normal here? There is no normal, it's what we and society suppose to be normal. But I think we better define "normal" by ourselves than blindly fallow morality of society (which in most cases stupid and ridiculous)
From my experience (And I do have a lot of friend all over the world) marriages where man was older were more happy and stable. Those of women and man of the same age were much less stable, especially when speaking of newer generation when people don't stay together because of moral issues that much. But I don't want to make it a rule. Because we all speak from our own experiences (as for example Glasses had different experience from my one, and she met more happy couples when people were of them same age and almost all unhappy with an age different of more than 10 years... and when there were quite a few happy women married to older guys coming up and telling her that everything is not that bad and her opinion can be wrong, she unfortunately did not want to see them and went on with her old story, even calling those women stupid because of choices and happiness... here we also can see certain psychological problems of different nature (but that's another discussion because as I already said before, all we have our bags in the head) ).
I was recently writing another story, about my German friend, who met a guy who was more than 10 years older than her. She really liked the guy, they were happy together, but she was afraid to start more serious relationship with him because he was older and she had all those prejudices about older guys and also the society in Germany is much more brutal about age difference. She was suffering like that for more than a year, and then she finally decided to go for it. And now, she is amazingly happy with the guy (as never before), and they are together for quite some time already. So complexes here could come from other sides. One of them is to look only for older guys (girls), excluding candidates of all other ages, and another extreme to look only for guys (women) of you own age only, excluding all other candidates that you meet on your way and even can really like and fall in love with... but not to go for it because of those prejudices....
Main thing is to be happy and how... who cares unless two people who love each other are happy? And if they don't love each other and are not happy, it does not matter what age they are, how beautiful and successful they are, what country they are coming from... It simply does not matter...
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VictoriaVero
09.03.09
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| Sorry, instead of "bags" I wanted to write "bugs" :)))) |
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E-V-A
09.03.09
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VictoriaVero
09.03.09
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Дорогая, Вика. Я читала твои посты здесь. Могу сказать, что я всегда уважала твое мнение. Я не буду опровергать твои суждения. Просто я хочу сказать, что я занималась темой браков с иностранцами. Тема, больщая, сложная, но здесь, в общем, все не так уж плохо. Я встречалась с владельцами агентств, здесь у нас и за руюежом, была в контакте с владельцами некоторых инет агентств. Тема неравных браков выплыла сама и очень меня заинтересовала. 
Да, тема эта, действительно, большая и сложная. Но вы не одна этой темой занимались. Я, кстати, сейчас книгу на данную тему пишу. А до этого три года крутилась в этой сфере, даже переводчиком побывала, правда, быстро ушла из этого дурдом и занялась исключительно бизнес-переводами. А с владельцами агентств и сайтов - навстречалась на всю оставшуюся жизнь (сама пару сайтов делала)... Так что скажем так, думаю, что уровень моей экспертизы в данном деле, не ниже вашего. О вашем не берусь судить, так как не знаю всей подноготной.
Причем, чем более духовно развита, или скажем интеллектуально равита женщина, которая вышла замуж по "идейным соображениям", то есть, по большой любви к старому козлу, тем ей хуже. Женщины, которые целенаправленно продают себя, быстрее адаптируются, сбрасывают папика с намного меньшими плтерями. Нередко в таких ситуациях жертвой становится "папик". Поэтому, я и сказала фокси, что она - прямой кандидат в самую неблагополучную категорию. Где же ты нашла счастливые браки с мужиком гораздо старше, чем женщина? Сведи меня хотя бы с парой. пусть разбавят картину общего мрака. Думаю, что с твоей стороны это лишь слова.
Где я нашла такие счастливые браки? Вокруг меня таких достаточно. Начиная с моей бабушки, которая вышла замуж за мужчину , младшее ее на 10 лет (и это в 54 году!). Они были очень счастливы всю свою жизнь, в контраст моей маме, которая вышла за одногодку. Потом знакомые, как на пост. советском пространстве, так и в Европе, включая вот эту самую немку, про которую я говорила. Потом, так же, бабушка и дедушка моего мужа, у которых разница тоже была больше десяти лет, и они были непомерно счастливы. Отец и мать муж, которые были одногодками, были несчастны. Он развелся, женился на женщине, намного моложе его, и вот живут уже много-много с ней лет, и тоже очень счастливы. Многие из моих однокурсниц, одноклассниц, сотрудниц и так далее, которые вышли замуж за одногодок, уже развелись. Те, которые вышли за мужчин старше, пока, вроде бы, ни одна из них не разводилась. Тех из них кого вижу и знаю близко, живут, на сколько я вижу и понимаю, счастливо. Потом девочки здесь и на Гебере, которых я знаю, знаю достаточно счастливых пар с разницей в возрасте. Список можно продолжаться до бесконечности. Но я лучше расскажу о паре, с разницей в возрасте в 17 лет, где супруги так любят друг друга, так подходят друг другу, так понимают друг друга, так счастливы.... что не много пар на всей нашей шестимиллиардной планете могут сравнится с ними (одногодок или с разницей в возрасте)! И эта пара, мы с мужем. А если у кого-то предвзятое отношение к нашей разнице возрасте, это их личная проблема, так как меня не интересует взгляд общества (серой массы, которая в сумме имеет интеллект гораздо ниже среднего) на данную разницу или еще кого-то там...., так как те люди, которые нам близки, которые знают нас, знают как исключительно мы счастливы и как мы подходим друг другу, данную разницу никогда и не замечали, а если и замечали, то видели в ней только позитивное. Вообще, когда мне кто-то говорит о нашей разнице в возрасте, что случается крайне редко, мне становиться прост смешно. Так как мы выбираем человека, а не возраст. А тех людей, которые ставят для себя ограничения (возрастные и другого плана) я могу только пожалеть, так как на самом деле, есть мужчины 25-лет в намного более худшем состоянии здоровья и ума, да и в общем, физическом и моральном состоянии, чем 50-летние. Они могут быть нудными, нежелающими никуда ходить, сидеть дома перед теликом и так далее. Есть мужчина в 25 намного более интеллигентные, образованные, заботливые, зрелые, интересные, чем некоторые мужчины в их 50... Реальный возраст человека - это возраст состояния его души... :)))) |
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E-V-A
09.03.09
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VictoriaVero
Не знаю как вам но для меня со сверстниками скучно общаться. Особенно с русскими. Один раз выложила фотку так такого хамства наслушалась какого от взрослых не услышишь!! И никто не вправе судить сколько лет вместе, это без разницы с кем. Главное сохранить уважение и чувства а сейчас это не все умеют. |
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1radkatt
09.03.09
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Damn I need to learn my Russian better .. i cant read all this and my translator just gets confused .... but seems there are good point of views but in the end its all about being happy and loving your partner!!!!  |
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FOXI-LADY
09.04.09
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VictoriaVero
Не знаю как вам но для меня со сверстниками скучно общаться. Особенно с русскими. Один раз выложила фотку так такого хамства наслушалась какого от взрослых не услышишь!! И никто не вправе судить сколько лет вместе, это без разницы с кем. Главное сохранить уважение и чувства а сейчас это не все умеют.

me too, having same situation. often
But I'm more optimistic and have some male friends(but maybe reason they are Ukrainian )
First of all thanks to Glasses for her fair remarks. There no dicsussion and no fun if everybody agree at same point. And of course -- people are very different "and what is good for one ,is the death for the other".
And very pleased she doesnt mean me stuped, just confused .By anyway -- critic open the eyes and makes grow up ,hehe.
About my situation now -- will say that now the maximum age limit for men(in my mind of course) is not more then 45.
But seems to me I already find a man I can be with. He is not older than 40
Here no age limit -- just a right man.
Here no question of age, I never cared about this too much.
Will explain why I deffend relationship with the difference in age.
Yes I had situations like this before. Of course they didnt lead to marriage, by anyway it was too early.
But being with an elder man I've got very valuable experience(for me) . And I never regret about this.
Even I managed find one fainthfull friend. which I can trust and believe.
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E-V-A
09.04.09
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Конечно получала, но не часто!! Есть здесь извращенцы, не спорю!! Но это не хамство а скорее болезнь!! |
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black-sheep
09.04.09
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Interesting thing though, I attended a class reunion a couple of years ago.
About 90% of all the girls from my class had married someone close to their age, divorced and remarried with men older than them. If I recall in most cases the difference was more than 10 years.
Does this mean anything? I don't know but the next reunion is in 2010, we'll see how they are doing
Personally I support neither position, rather believe it is a very personal choice of two people that has not much to with social norms and ethics or morals. If they can be happy together the rest should be happy for them. If two characters are compatible and the feelings deep and sincere all the rest is words.
Glasses, here we talk about real and true relations. Not about old guys who want babies as trophy or little girls who look for rich sponsors.
I don't know if I read your comments in the wrong way but from what I understood ( I repeat- IF I understood correct) you take it for granted that any "old goat" has bad intentions and simply wants to buy some young meat? I have not read anywhere that you might give a small chance an old goat might actually love his younger girlfriend.
I think if a girl falls for a guy, regardless of age difference, who has bad intentions she will anyway be unhappy.
As for Society and the grey mass, I don't know if their intelligence is low (by some things people do I really tend to think so sometimes) but what I do know is that the grey mass is made of people. People in their vast majority do not like the "different" and are scared and threatened by it, whatever it is. To think bad and condemn a couple with a substantial age difference makes me think that "basic" instincts start working. The men get jealous and the women insecure that their man may think "why not me?" Honestly, why else would they even care to think and comment about it?
This thread suddenly made me feel so old....
I think I will now retire and get myself some geriatric medication
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